How to give a great blowjob

Blowjobs?? Well its a skill few can master perfectly. Its one of those sex acts that you feel nervous about, unsure whether you would be any good at it, or even want to do it, let alone like to actually do it! It has definitely become one of my favorite sex acts to do with my partner, but was never the case beforehand. Plus I wasn’t any good at it, until now. Practice and getting tips, both got me there! So read on if you want to know how to give a great blowjob.

You should never do anything sex-related you were not into or consented to. Not everyone wants to get down and busy on their partner, but if you do, then here are some tips on how.

Men care more than just getting their cock wet. They are looking for that mind-blowing blowjob! And they would rather get one amazing one once a month, than one that’s pretty average once a week. And never do this if you’re not in the mood as men can always tell, and it would show in your performance. You need to be enthusiastic.

: The warm up
Never go straight in for the kill, as it’s nice to start off with a little warm-up first. An amazing hand job just to get things going and plenty of lubrication will do the job nicely. Remember you can always use spit, which as I’ve mentioned before is awesome to use as a natural and always available lubrication, and looks pretty hot whilst doing it, especially in this scenario. Lubrication is very important so not to cause sores and redness whilst your hands in motion. Remember you are trying to recreate an environment like the vagina that the penis is used to. So wet, tight and warm.

: The right positioning
It’s easier for you if you get your partner to sit up straight or stand up, so you are facing towards him. It’s more visual that way, so you both get a clear view of what is happening. This also adds to the fun and makes it feel a bit naughty.

Always start with the tip, as that’s the most sensitive part of the penis and always needs attention, but make sure no teeth get in the way. We don’t want to graze or bite it. If you can, then curl your lips around your teeth. Don’t listen to all the porn myths about deep-throating, as not everyone can do it. Neither gagging or getting jaw ache is sexy.

: Don’t forget other spots.
Also using your tongue and moving it around doesn’t really add to the feeling. Doing it naturally is enough. Whilst doing that don’t forget the rest of the penis, top of the thighs, and the balls. Some men actually love their balls being touched and sucked on gently. It’s a very sensitive area and can actually make him cum quicker. But make sure you ask first as some men are not into that. There is also an area between the bum and the penis which is called the perineum. It has lots of nerve endings, which when being touched is amazing.

Use your hand as well as your mouth, as this gets used as an extension of your mouth. Plus by then it doesn’t make much difference, as they are well and truly into the flow of it all. Make sure you always keep your hand attached to your mouth for full effect. And if you can, then add a slightly twisting back-and-forth motion, but don’t rush it. Make sure you go slow and try to keep a steady rhythm. That way they can just relax into it with no pressure to cum too quickly.

: Spit or swallow
When your partner is ready to cum you then have to make a choice, ” Do I spit or do I swallow”? Never feel pressure to swallow as not everyone likes it, and no man should make you. Instead, right up to that very moment use your hand instead if you don’t want to swallow, or let them cum in your mouth and spit it out. But if you are like me and swallow, then at the very end just go real slow, as it becomes really sensitive once they cum. If they can handle it then flick your tongue around the tip for a bit, as some men find that quite naughty and hot. You know you have given them an awesome blowjob when they are pretty zoned out with a big grin on their face that shows complete satisfaction,