The psychology of sexual kink The sexual word “Kink” is associated with leather, spanking, corsets, whips and maybe even cucumbers! Fifty shades of grey is probably the most recent and famous example of kink, specifically bondage, discipline, sadism, dominance, and BDSM, but slightly more vanilla.The kink sexual preference can come across as a bad thing,…
Natural sex or Sex addiction? Sex is a natural basic part of human nature and Its healthy to have a strong libido. But there is a fine line between healthy and out of control. It also becomes quite evident the difference between enjoying sex and being addicted to sex. If sex is not on tap,…
What you need to know; For many women it can be difficult to climax during sex, so here is a very simple and highly pleasurable technique that will get you the orgasm that all women should have. Satisfaction in the bedroom is essential, whether it is self pleasuring or with a partner. Many women who…
Getting your sex life back on track: Relationships although amazing, can be a lot of hard work. Both men and women think differently. Our needs are different and we both get turned on in very different ways. Maintaining a healthy sex life with your partner can help reduce stress levels and keep you on a…
How to have bathtub sex: Making sure you have enough room in the tub for 2 adults is a good start. If you have a tiny tub then it’s a nonstarter. What you see in films isn’t like everyday life. Some people are just not that blessed, but if you do have a big tub,…
What are sexual fetishes: A sexual fetish is where you become aroused by a part of the body or object, that’s not typically sexual, like shoes or feet. Sexual fetishes are more common in men than they are in women, but just because you may like seeing your partner in high heels, doesn’t necessarily mean…
What is erectile dysfunction: Erectile dysfunction or impotence, is where a man is unable to either get an erection or keep an erection that stays hard enough to have sex. If it’s rare to have issues getting an erection, then there is no need for concern, but if it becomes a regular problem it can…
What is vaginismus: Vaginismus is known as a type of sexual dysfunction. It’s where the muscles in the vagina contract involuntarily. It doesn’t stop you from becoming sexually aroused, but during intercourse can cause pain and discomfort. Penetration can either be difficult or even prevented. Vaginismus can occur when a partner attempts penetration, a tampon…
Being educated about the clitoris is a wise move, especially if you or your partner have one. It is often known as the “pleasure nub” and anyone who has one gets a lot of pleasure from it. All you see of the clitoris is a tiny nubbin, extending way up into the vagina. It’s full…
Well, what can we say about anal play? Have you thought about it, and played with the idea, but not sure how to approach it, and wondered what it would be like to go through the back door? Well, you are not on your own, and maybe it is one of those things that’s on…
What does edging mean? Edging when in sex, means teasing and then stopping stimulation just before you come, waiting for around 30 seconds, and keep repeating until you finally let go to the end and orgasm. Edging is the practice of stopping yourself from reaching a sexual climax when you are right on the edge…
What is sexercise? Sexercise is a pretty hardcore workout, whilst having sex. You burn plenty of energy, tone up muscles, and get your heart racing. What a great way to get fit. Not only does it feel good, but it releases stress and boosts your mood. Amazing sex and an intense workout combined, that’s sexercise….
:What is mutual masturbation?Mutual masturbation can mean one of two things. Masturbating yourselves together or hand sex with each other. In this blog, we are talking about masturbating yourselves in front of each other. You can either do this in the same room or by video call. This depends on how brave you both are….
:Why is sexual responsiveness so important.Sexual responsiveness is important in any healthy relationship, and whilst it should come naturally, some people can find it more difficult than others. Without it, many relationships will suffer and struggle from lack of intimacy, affection and low sexual activity between them. We all need sexual responsiveness from our partners…
Blowjobs?? Well its a skill few can master perfectly. Its one of those sex acts that you feel nervous about, unsure whether you would be any good at it, or even want to do it, let alone like to actually do it! It has definitely become one of my favorite sex acts to do with…
THIS BLOG POST IS BASED ON MY OPINION AND FOR THE BENEFIT OF COUPLES IN MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIPS.Yes, a lot has been said as to why saliva should not be used as a lubricant during sex, but that’s not actually the case when you are in a safe and secure long-term relationship. It actually has many…
Women and orgasms Women not being able to orgasm is very common, so for those who haven’t or think they can’t, don’t feel alone, abnormal or damaged in any way. Its completely normal and its fixable. Don’t feel ashamed or feel like you have to fake it forever. In general there is a lack of…
Good skin, Happier mood, cut the risk of cancer, heart disease, stroke and more? No need for a trip to the pharmacy, when sex is the best medicine. Sex relieves stress, raising endorphins. According to science when we have sex, our body secretes a hormone known as dopamine, which as well as boosting your mood…
At times sex toys can bring a whole new level of hot sauce to the bedroom for you and your partner. In case you didn’t know or never tried it, it can add that extra bit of spice to your sex life. Sex toys shouldn’t be frowned upon at all, but the complete opposite. Sometimes…